You’ve decided you can’t stay in your marriage. You’ve tried and it’s not working. What should you do to prepare for the process? Should you tell your spouse immediately? Hire an attorney? Tell your best friend? As you move forward, you will face a multitude of decisions that will have an effect on the rest of your life. Here’s one suggestion: gather information and build a team. If you have always played a role in the marital finances, great! If you have never played an